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Lyst and lythe a lytell space, Y schall you telle a praty cace, How the gode wyfe taught hyr doughter To mend hyr lyfe, and make her better: "Doughter, and thou wylle be a wyfe, Wysely to wyrche in all thi lyfe Serve God, and kepe thy chyrche, And myche the better thou shalt wyrche. To go to the chyrch, lette for no reyne, And that schall helpe thee in thy peyne. Gladly loke thou pay thy tythes, Also thy offeringes loke thou not mysse; Of pore men be thou not lothe, Bot gyff thou them both mete and clothe; And to pore folke be thou not herde, Bot be to them thyn owen stowarde; For where that a gode stowerde is, Wantys seldome any ryches. When thou arte in the chyrch, my chyld, Loke that thou be bothe meke and myld, And bydde thy bedes aboven alle thinge, With sybbe ne fremde make no jangelynge. Laughe thou to scorne nother olde ne yonge, Be of gode berynge and of gode tonge; Yn thi gode berynge begynnes thi worschype, My dere doughter, of this take kepe. Yf any man profer thee to wede, A curtas answer to hym be seyde, And schew hym to thy frendes alle; For any thing that may befawle, Syt not by hym, ne stand thou nought Yn sych place ther synne mey be wroght. What man that thee doth wedde with rynge, Loke thou hym love aboven all thinge; Yf that it forteyne thus with thee That he be wroth, and angery be, Loke thou mekly answere hym, And meve hym nother lyth ne lymme; And that schall sclake hym of hys mode Than schall thou be hys derlynge gode. Fayre wordes wreth do slake; Fayre wordes wreth schall never make, Ne fayre wordes brake never bone, Ne never schall in no wone. Be fayre of semblant, my dere doughter, Change not thi countenans with grete laughter And wyse of maneres loke thou be gode, Ne for no tayle change thi mode Ne fare not a thou a gyglot were, Ne laughe thou not low, be thou therof sore. Luke thou also gape not to wyde, For anythinge that may betyde. Suete of speche, loke that thow be Trow in worde and dede; lerne thus of me. Loke thou fle synne, vilony, and blame, And se ther be no man that seys thee any schame. When thou goys in the gate, go not to faste, Ne hyderwerd ne thederward thi hede thou caste. No grete othes loke thou swere: Byware, my doughter, of syche a maner! Go not as it wer a gase Fro house to house, to seke the mase Ne go thou not to no merket To sell thi thryft, bewer of itte. Ne go thou nought to the taverne, Thy godnes for to selle therinne; Forsake thou hym that taverne hanteth, And all the vices that therinne bethe. Wherever thou comme at ale other wyne, Take not to myche, and leve be tyme; For mesure therinne, it is no herme, And drounke to be, it is thi schame. Ne go thou not to no wrastylynge, Ne git to no coke schetynge, As it wer a strumpet other a gyglote, Or as a woman that lyst to dote. Byde thou at home, my doughter dere. Thes poyntes at me I rede thou lere, And wyrke thi werke at nede, All the better thou may spede Y swere thee, doughter, be heven Kynge, Mery it is of althynge. Aquyente thee not with every man. That inne the stret thou metys than; Thof he wold be aqueynted with thee, Grete hym curtasly, and late hym be. Loke by hym not longe thou stond, That thorow no vylony thi hert fond All the men be not trew That fare spech to thee can schew. For no covetys no giftys thou take, Bot thou wyte why: sone them forsake. For gode women, with gyftes Me ther honour fro them lyftes, Thofe that thei wer all trew As any stele that bereth hew, For with ther giftes men them over gone. Thof thei wer trew as ony stone, Bounde thei be that giftys take: Therfor thes giftes thou forsake. Yn other mens houses make thou no maystry; For drede, no vylony to thee be spye. Loke thou chyd no wordes bolde, To myssey nother yonge ne olde For and thou any chyder be, Thy neyghbors wylle speke thee vylony. Be thou not to envyos, For dred thi neyghbors wyll thee curse, Envyos hert hymselve fretys, And of gode werkys hymselve lettys. Houswyfely wyll thou gone On werke deys in thine awne wone. Pryde, rest, and ydellschype, Fro thes werkes thou thee kepe; And kepe thou welle thy holy dey, And thy God worschype when thou may, More for worschype than for pride; And styfly in thy feyth thou byde. Loke thou were no ryche robys; Ne counterfyte thou no ladys For myche schame do them betyde That lese ther worschipe thorow ther pride. Be thou, doughter, a houswyfe gode, And evermore of mylde mode. Wysely loke thi hous and meneye, The beter to do thei schall be. Women that be of yvell name, Be ye not togedere in same Loke what moste nede is to done. And sette thi mené therto ryght sone. That thinge that is before done dede, Redy it is when thou hast nede. And if thy lord be fro home, Lat not thy meneye idell gone And loke thou wele who do hys dede, Quyte hym therafter to his mede; And thei that wylle bot lytell do, Therafter thou quite is mede also. A grete dede if thou have to done, At the tone ende thou be ryght sone; And if that thou fynd any fawte, Amend it sone, and tarrye note. Mych thynge behoven them That gode housold schall kepyn. Amend thy hous or thou have nede, For better after thou schall spede; And if that thy nede be grete, And in the country courne be stryte, Make an houswyfe on thyselve, Thy bred thou bake for houswyfys helthe. Amonge thi servantes if thou stondyne, Thy werke it schall be soner done To helpe them sone thou sterte, For many handes make lyght werke. Bysyde thee if thy neghbores thryve, Therfore thou make no stryfe, Bot thanke God of all thi gode That He send thee to thy fode; And than thow schall lyve gode lyfe, And so to be a gode houswyfe. At es he lyves that awes no dette, Yt is no les, withouten lette. Syte not to longe uppe at evene, For drede with ale thou be oversene Loke thou go to bede bytyme; Erly to ryse is fysyke fyne. And so thou schall be, my dere chyld, Be welle dysposed, both meke and myld, For all ther es may thei not have, That wyll thryve, and ther gode save, And if it thus thee betyde, That frendes falle thee fro on every syde, And God fro thee thi chyld take, Thy wreke one God do thou not take, For thyselve it wyll undo, And all thes that thee longe to Many one for ther awne foly Spyllys themselve unthryftyly. Loke, doughter, nothing thou lese, Ne thi housbond thou not desples. And if thou have a doughter of age, Pute here sone to maryage; For meydens, thei be lonely And nothing syker therby. Borow thou not, if that thou meye, For drede thi neybour wyll sey naye; Ne take thou nought to fyrste, Bot thou be inne more bryste. Make thee not ryche of other mens thyng, The bolder to spend be one ferthyng. Borowyd thinge muste nedes go home, Yf that thou wyll to heven gone. When the servantes have do ther werke, To pay ther hyre loke thou be smerte, Whether thei byde or thei do wende Thus schall thou kepe them ever thi frende, And thus thi frendes wyll be glade That thou dispos thee wyslye and sade. Now I have taught thee, my dere doughter, The same techynge I hade of my modour: Thinke theron both nyght and dey, Forgette them not if that thou may, For a chyld unborne wer better Than be untaught, thus seys the letter. Therfor Allmyghty God inne trone, Spede us all, bothe even and morne; And bringe us to Thy hyghe blysse, That never more fro us schall mysse!" Amen, quod Rate

Listen; be attentive; (see note) pretty story amend if you work; your life support; church (see note) i.e., rain or shine see to it; tithes; (see note) do not miss disdainful give; food; clothing hard your own steward; (see note) good seldom [is there] lack of See to it; humble; gracious; (see note) pray with your beads; (see note) kinfolk nor strangers; gossip; (see note) neither good behavior; careful talk begins your honor [advice] take heed offers to wed you courteous reply introduce him Regardless of; befall Sit where sin; done Whatever; (see note) love him If it happens angry submissively; (see note) neither provoke him in any way; (see note) mitigate his anger darling good Fair words diminish wrath; (see note) Nor; ever break bones dwelling fair; appearance your countenance; (see note) with regard to manners gossip; your demeanor act not as if you were a loose woman loudly; sorry yawn (gape); too wide happen; (see note) Sweet; speech True flee sin; (see note) i.e., starts rumors walk on the path; too fast one way or the other; looking cursing Beware if you were a goose (frivolous person); (see note) idle diversion market material wealth; beware betray those who; haunt reside within or wine; (see note) too much; leave on moderation; harm drunk; shame wrestling matches; (see note) cock shooting; (see note) or a whore; (see note) is like a fool Stay about men I advise you to learn when needed succeed promise; by Acquaint yourself; (see note) you meet Though; acquainted with you Greet; courteously stand through; villainy; heart found true fair speech; show covetousness; gifts Unless you know; quickly Men; steal Though; true steel; i.e., is polished overwhelm i.e., worthy Obligated; (see note) attempt; mastery fear; witness quarrel mis-say (slander) neither if you; troublemaker; (see note) slander you too envious fear Envious; itself disturbs itself hinders; (see note) own dwelling idleness; (see note) [Away] from; activities; keep yourself day worship; (see note) honor steadfastly; faith; abide wear, fancy clothes copy; ladies befall lose; honor good housewife of humble spirit look [after]; household servants to serve [you] bad reputation together in company (i.e., avoid them) See assign your servants; (see note) before it is needed i.e., husband; away from Let; your servants go idle his work Give him; reward but little cancel his reward task At one end fault do not hesitate Many things behoove household fare grain; straight; (see note) i.e., do the work bake bread; well-being (see note) do not begrudge them sustenance ease; owes; debt; (see note) lie, without a doubt (truly) Sit fear; intoxicated on time Early to rise; good medicine disposed ease their wealth happens; (see note) friends fall away grievance on Many [a] one; own folly Defeat; unwisely lose i.e., marrying age Offer her (see note) lack certainty as a result may [what is] lent on credit Unless; need men's money by one farthing be returned heaven go pay their hire; prompt stay before; leave your friends yourself; seriously (see note) mother is better unborn goes the proverb; (see note) throne Protect; evening (see note)

How the Goode Wife Taught Hyr Doughter, Select Bibliography

Manuscripts

Bodleian Library MS Ashmole 61 (SC 6922), fols. 7a-8b (c. 1500). [Base copy text for this edition.]

Emmanuel College Cambridge MS I. 428 (James 106), fols. 48b-52a (c. 1350).

Trinity College Cambridge MS 599 (R. 3.19), fols. 211a-213a (c. 1500).

Lambeth Palace Library MS 853, pp. 102-12 (c. 1430). [In stanzas with refrain.]

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Madden, Sir Frederick, ed. How the Goode Wif Thaught Hir Doughter. London: C. Whittington, 1838.

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Editions

Coulton, G. G. Social Life in Britain from the Conquest to the Reformation. Cambridge, Eng.: Cambridge University Press, 1918; rpt. 1919, 1938, 1968.

Furnivall, Frederick J., ed. Queene Elizabethes Achademy: A Booke of Precedence, etc., with Essays on Early Italian and German Books of Courtesy. EETS e.s. 8. London: N. Trübner, 1869. Pp. 44-51.

---. The Babees Book, Aristotle's ABC, Urbanitatis, Stans Puer ad Mensam, The Lytille Childrenes Lytil Boke, The Bokes of Nurture of Hugh Rhodes and John Russell, Wynkyn de Worde's Book of Kervynge, The Booke of Demeanor, The Boke of Curtasye, Seager's Schoole of Vertue, etc. etc. with some French and Latin Poems on Like Subjects and Some Forewards on Education in Early England. EETS o.s. 32. London: N. Trübner & Co., 1868. Rpt. New York: Greenwood Press, 1969. Pp. 36-47.

Hindley, Charles D., ed. The Old Book Collector's Miscellany. London: Reeves & Turner, 1871.

Mustanoja, Tauno, ed. The Good Wife Taught Her Daughter, The Good Wyfe Wold a Pylgremage, The Thewis of Gud Women. Helsinki: Suomalaisen Kirjallisuuden Scuran, 1948.

Partridge, John, ed. The Hystorie of the Moste Noble Knight Plasidas and Other Rare Pieces. London: J. B. Nichols & Sons, 1873.


Modernizations

Rickert, Edith, ed. The Babees Book: Medieval Manners for the Young Now First Done into Modern English from the Texts of Dr. F. J. Furnivall. London: The Ballantyne Press, 1908. Rpt. London: Chatto & Windus, 1923. Pp. 31-42. [A modernized version.]

Walsh, James J., ed. A Golden Treasury of Medieval Literature. Boston: The Stratford Co., 1930.


Related Studies

Ashley, Kathleen M. "Medieval Courtesy Literature and Dramatic Mirrors of Female Conduct." In The Ideology of Conduct: Essays on Literature and the History of Sexuality. Ed. Nancy Armstrong and Leonard Tennenhouse. New York: Methuen, 1987. Pp. 25-38.

Ashley, Kathleen M., and Robert L. A. Clark, eds. Medieval Conduct. Minneapolis: University of Minnesota Press, 2001.

Bornstein, Diane. Mirrors of Courtesy. Hamden, CT: Archon Books, 1975.

---. "As Meek as a Maid: A Historical Perspective on Language for Women in Courtesy Books from the Middle Ages to Seventeen Magazine." In Women's Language and Style. Ed. Douglas Butturff and Edmund L. Epstein. Akron: L & S Books, 1978. Pp. 132-38.

---. "Women's Public and Private Space in Some Medieval Courtesy Books." Centerpoint: A Journal of Interdisciplinary Studies 3 (1980), 68-74.

Hanawalt, Barbara A. Growing Up in Medieval London: The Experience of Childhood in History. Oxford: Oxford University Press, 1993.

Nicholls, Jonathan. The Matter of Courtesy: Medieval Courtesy Books and the Gawain Poet. Suffolk: D. S. Brewer, 1985.

Sponsler, Claire. Drama and Resistance: Bodies, Goods, and Theatricality in Late Medieval England. Minneapolis: University of Minnesota Press, 1997. [See especially ch. 3: "Conduct Books and Good Governance." Pp. 50-74.]

Stiller, Nikki. Eve's Orphans: Mothers and Daughters in Medieval English Literature. Westport, CT: Greenwood Press, 1980.